Hello, I understand your struggle also from personal life experience. Libra is your most important sign and Venus is your most important planet. Definitely there's a priority given to love and relationships in your life. If we add that your most important house in house 7, we have the full picture of a woman drawn to love.

Other factors in your chart point to a peculiar relationship horoscope. Your Venus is in Virgo and in the 6th house. Both Virgo and the 6th house are dedicated to the partner. Service is an important element in this positions. Your 7th house, the house of relationships, is also in Virgo, which can only reinforce the service attitude. You have 5 planets in the house 7 of relationships, which are... well, a lot!

Your Mars in house 10 gives you strong stamina about career and work, so you can well support your dedication attitude in relationships. Mars is also in a good trine aspect with Venus, joining love and work. But as you say, you are not actually happy about the way your work efforts are directed to support a man finantially.

What went wrong can be traced to your Neptune in Scorpio in the 8th house (the house of money, power, sex) square Venus. Neptune, the planet of illusions and irrationality but also the planet of compassion, is placed in the house of money and has a difficult aspect with the planet of love. We have every ingredient to notice that in love Neptune triggers an emotional involvement bypassing rationality in the area of help and support connected to love.

The Moon also might have a big role in what you are experiencing. The Moon is the planet of sensitivity, feelings and feminine energy in general. Your Moon is in Aries with 4 oppositions and one square aspect. A Moon in Aries is a very active, direct and courageous Moon and permeated by masculine energy. For a Moon in Aries with such aspects is difficult to feel vulnerable or needy and is hard to ask for support. It feels an humiliation to the Moon in Aries. The soft and needy parts of the person are compensated by a "masculine" energy. Of course there's nothing wrong about expressing the Moon in a active and masculine manner. But if you repress your need of being supported or ask for help, then it might be that men are willing to take advantage of your active and strong attitude about work and money.

If your Moon has been emotionally hurt in the past it's not easy to get in touch again with the vulnerable side, however is the way to heal the Moon.