With Lilith transiting through Capricorn, now forming a square to your composite Eros in Virgo, your relationship may be undergoing a period marked by intense and transforming challenges. This aspect generates a dynamic interplay between desire, often of a more hidden or taboo nature (Lilith), against the grain of your mutual expressions of love and care (Eros).

Lilith in Capricorn triggers profound questions about authority, control, and the structures within which your relationship operates. It confronts the power dynamics between you, potentially bringing out latent issues related to control or suppression. You might notice an increased focus on the responsibilities or boundaries that feel oppressive rather than supportive. It's crucial to assess whether these structures serve the growth of the relationship or if they are remnants of outdated expectations that need revising.

Meanwhile, Eros in Virgo typically thrives on perfection, service, and practical expressions of love. However, under the square from Lilith, these qualities can be challenged. There could be a stark contrast between your desires to serve and perfect each other's lives and the deeper, perhaps darker needs that Lilith awakens. This might manifest as criticism or dissatisfaction where there once was harmony and meticulous care.

To navigate this period effectively, recognize that discomfort can lead to growth. Moments of tension are revealing the aspects of your relationship that need transformation or release. Be open to discussing feelings and undercurrents that may not usually surface, but do so with the intention to understand and integrate, rather than to criticize or control. This transit is an opportunity to redefine what mutual support and love look like, stripping away superficial needs, and focusing on building a relationship that honors both partners' deepest selves. Engage in this period as a powerful evolution of your bond, one that deepens trust by embracing authenticity and vulnerability.

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