As the Sun transits in Virgo, you both may witness amplified reverberations in your relationship due to the square aspect with your composite Lilith in Capricorn. This configuration brings out the traits normally held in check by societal norms or personal inhibitions - a raw pulse of energy that can both empower and unnerve.

Being punctilious to a fault, Virgo's practical, systematic approach could collide with the primal energy of Lilith in Capricorn. Lilith here craves power and respect; it rocks the stability of the established order that Capricorn stands for. You may find yourselves grappling with control issues, as each of you may seek dominance. The need for validation may lead to power struggles, which, if unchecked, could threaten the harmony of your relationship.

Virgo's influence may push you towards over-analyzing and over-criticizing, possibly illuminating flaws in each other. This juxtaposed against Capricorn Lilith's relentless ambition could cause friction and misunderstandings. Nevertheless, this friction also offers opportunity. Constructive critique, if accepted, can improve efficiency, quality and satisfaction in your relationship. It can help enhance understanding, if taken in the right spirit.

The Capricorn Lilith may compel you to eradicate every bit of inefficiency and flaw, while the Virgo Sun promotes perfect order and routine. Don't allow this drive for perfection to turn into an obsession. Instead, use it to foster growth, trust and understanding.

This transit shows the potential for power struggles but also for immense growth and transformation. It invites you to question, rediscover, and perhaps transform some ingrained dynamics within your relationship. Although this period may be challenging, it is not insurmountable. Balance is key. Use this Virgo Sun square Lilith in Capricorn transit as a catalyst to invoke courage, compassion, mutual respect and compromise. Knowing when to lead and when to follow, when to improve and when to accept, will aid in navigating these potentially tumultuous waters.

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