As Lilith makes her moody transit through Cancer, squaring your composite Eros in Libra, your relationship is set to dance to a tune that's part love song, part battle hymn. This alignment mirrors a celestial drama, emphasizing a tension between your foundational emotional needs (Lilith in Cancer) and your joint desire for harmony and aesthetic pleasure (Eros in Libra). It's as if you've been invited to a masquerade but find yourselves in a tug-of-war over the choice of masks.

With Lilith in Cancer, emotions run deep but also raw. Your relationship may experience a surge in the need for security and reassurance, possibly awakening some underlying domestic grievances. Like an emotional archaeologist, it's a time when past grievances might surface, demanding to be addressed. You might find yourselves more sensitive or touchy. It's crucial not to take every mood swing or emotional storm as a forecaster of doom; sometimes a cloudy day is just, well, a cloudy day.

Meanwhile, Eros in Libra seeks balance, yet under this square, that balance might be as elusive as socks after laundry day. Libra's influence means you typically thrive in fairness, beauty, and peace. However, Lilith will challenge these by throwing in scenarios that disrupt the 'perfect harmony'. Decisions may lead to disagreements, aesthetics could suddenly become a debate club, and the middle ground might seem like a myth.

However, it's not all clouds on the horizon. The friction generated by this square can ignite passion and deepen your understanding of each other's needs and desires. Think of it as being tasked to repaint a room together; color choices might clash, but the end result can be unexpectedly harmonious.

Navigating this period calls for open communication and perhaps a dash more empathy. Acknowledge each other's emotional footprint. Engage in small acts of kindness-leaving the last piece of cake for the other might just be more powerful than you think. As you move through this challenging transit, remember that every relationship storm also comes with a rainbow, albeit sometimes you have to squint a bit to see it.

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