When Lilith transits Libra, squaring your composite Venus in Cancer, buckle up for a cosmic rollercoaster ride in your relationship dynamics. Known for her untamed energy, Lilith shaking hands with Venus in this aspect is like mixing a fierce independence cocktail with a dash of emotional sensitivity - an unusual combination that can either invigorate or unsettle.

Firstly, Lilith in Libra pushes towards a scrutiny of fairness and balance in your relationship. You might find yourselves questioning whether the give-and-take between you is as even as your favorite perfectly-leveled seesaw in the park. This is a time when any underlying feelings of inequality might bubble up to the surface. However, do remember, unlike a seesaw, perfect balance in human connections is rare and often fleeting, so aim for fairness, not perfection.

Simultaneously, Venus in Cancer craves emotional security and nurturing. The square from Lilith might stir up some emotional tidal waves, challenging this comfort zone. You may encounter moments where one or both feel that emotional needs aren't just being met-they're being sent through a maze! It's a bit like trying to hug a cactus; worthwhile for the few flowers, but expect a few pricks.

As these planetary energies pull at each other, communication is your golden ticket. Discuss your feelings and perceptions openly, and you'll likely find that what seemed like an emotional Everest is just a manageable hill, best conquered together.

Lean into the transformative edge of Lilith. While she can stir the pot, remember she also teaches powerful lessons about authenticity and embracing the deeper, sometimes darker sides of yourselves and your relationship. It's an excellent period for growth, letting go of outdated affections and, believe it or not, finding humor in the quirks of your partnership.

Navigating this square may feel like decoding a cryptic love letter written in an extinct dialect at times. But with patience and introspection, you'll decipher it, uncovering a deeper bond and maybe even enjoying the challenge of interpretation.

Register with 12andus to dive into your personalized birth charts, synastry, composite, and transit readings.