With Lilith transiting in Scorpio and squaring your composite Ascendant in Virgo, you are entering a profoundly transformative period in your relationship. This astrological phase calls for both deep introspection and external adjustments. The wild, untamed energy of Lilith in Scorpio challenges the more refined, detail-oriented nature of Virgo on your Ascendant, bringing underlying tensions to the surface, particularly regarding control and power dynamics.

Lilith's energy in Scorpio stirs deep, often unspoken, desires and can intensify emotional exchanges between you. This might manifest as heightened sensitivity or defensiveness around subjects that tap into your core vulnerabilities. The key here is to confront these darker, hidden aspects of your relationship without fear or avoidance. This transit offers a unique opportunity to heal and transform by facing what is typically kept in the shadows.

The square to your Virgo Ascendant, however, may initially cause some distress. Virgo's influence typically strives for order and simplicity, whereas Scorpio's complex and chaotic nature can feel unsettling. You might find yourselves nitpicking or criticizing each other more than usual, or facing criticism from outside sources that challenge the efficiency or practicality of your partnership.

This phase requires patience and communication. Discuss feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, or any unmet desires without placing blame. Recognize that these intense emotions are catalysts for growth and deeper understanding, not just points of conflict. The transformative potential of this transit lies in its ability to bring about a more honest alignment of your mutual aspirations and deeper bond.

Embrace the process of recalibrating the practical aspects of your relationship to better support emotional and spiritual growth. The discomfort you experience can be a powerful motivator for establishing a more authentic connection, one that acknowledges and integrates the complexities of your individual desires and shared goals.

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