When Lilith transits in Capricorn and squares your composite Lilith in Virgo, you may find yourselves feeling a bit more rebellious than usual, specifically in how you manage the practicalities of your relationship. Capricorn's stern influence demands structure, but with Lilith's wild energy stirring the pot, you both might suddenly feel the urge to throw your meticulously color-coded planner out the window.

You know the importance you both place on order and routine, given your composite Lilith in Virgo. But now, Lilith in Capricorn is prompting a bit of a cosmic coup. This can manifest as questioning why you adhere to such rigorous schedules or why certain responsibilities must always fall on the same shoulders. It's akin to suddenly wanting dessert before dinner - not because you're reckless, but because, why not?

Imagine you're planning your traditional, perfectly timed Sunday meal prep, and instead, one of you proposes an impromptu road trip. Or perhaps you start questioning why certain chores are deemed 'yours' and 'mine' instead of 'ours.' This period dares you to break some self-imposed rules and experiment with new dynamics.

However, beware of the square aspect, which can introduce tension and power struggles. Virgo's critical eye combined with Capricorn's authoritarian streak can lead to nitpicking not just the what and the how, but the why of your shared habits. It's crucial during this transit to remember that change can be constructive and doesn't have to signify chaos.

Find balance by allowing Lilith's energy to introduce flexibility into your routines without completely dismantling the structure that holds your relationship together. This could be an excellent time to discuss openly what rules serve you and which ones feel more like a burden. This way, instead of the cosmic rebel without a cause, Lilith can become the catalyst for meaningful evolution in your partnership.

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