Venus and Ascendant aspects in the Birth Chart: Are you seen as a loving and gentle person?

4-11-love-gentle.jpg Venus conjunct Ascendant

You are a fascinating and charming person both in intimate and social settings.

Gentle and friendly, you don't impose your views on others.

You are aware of the importance of your friends and social contacts and how they contribute to your public image.

The need to be accepted, admired and popular is very strong. You refrain from quarrels as much as you can and always need harmony in your relationships.

Care and good taste for your external appearance adds to your popularity.

You are very sensitive to criticism. You also avoid criticizing people, fearing they might reciprocate by talking about your negative qualities.

If you become too accommodating and flattering in order to attract people you might be seen as being fake and superficial.

You are focused on about what is valuable in life and you might be particularly interested in material possessions and luxury items.

You like art and entertainment and you tend to indulge in comforts in an attempt to create an easy life.

Venus sextile Ascendant

Love and affection are noticeable qualities of your personality.

Being gentle and kind can make you susceptible to some people who would take advantage of your tender nature.

You easily attract others because of your gentle and loving nature. You are also perceived as physically attractive. You are charming and may use your flirtatious or compassionate nature to make important connections which will help you to succeed.

Venus square Ascendant

You have a gentle and charming nature and people acknowledge it, but it hides a certain degree of insecurity.

Early life experiences may have led you to feel insecure about your appearance. You tend to place your value and self worth on others’ opinion of you.

You go to great lengths to make sure others see you as beautiful or lovable and as a result you end up giving your power away to others. You may also compromise yourself to remain in others’ good graces.

Challenges and losses in relationships can lead you to understand your personal value and help you assert your boundaries rather than always relying on others’ opinions as a measure of your self worth.

Venus trine Ascendant

Love and affection are noticeable qualities of your personality.

Being gentle and kind can make you susceptible to some people who would take advantage of your tender nature.

You value financial security and you love luxury, but you aren't obsessed with becoming rich or having a high social status. You basically seek real love.

You are interested in art, music and anything that radiates beauty and harmony.

Your gentle manners make you apt to work with people, to manage human resources, be involved in public relations and in anything related to art and entertainment.

The drawbacks of this aspect are a certain indulgence, a passive attitude and the avoidance of sustained efforts.

Venus opposite Ascendant

You have a gentle and charming nature and people acknowledge it, but it hides a certain degree of insecurity.

Even though you do your best to appear self-confident, especially by taking care of your external appearance, you need continuous support and praise from others.

You tend to value others based on how they can support your life and popularity.

Lacking financial security feels very distressing to you and you hate to work hard to improve your financial condition.

Seeking partnerships with wealthy people is part of your focus and you are also concerned about what others think of your partner. You want your partner to look as attractive as you are, otherwise you would feel ashamed.

There might be an inner misunderstanding in your value system arising from early conditioning. You think that you can be loved only if you are attractive in your external appearance.

Venus quincunx Ascendant

You have to overcome deep insecurities in order to really understand your personal value. Until you come to this realization you may rely too heavily on appearance, sexuality and emotional manipulation to seek approval and attention from others.

With time and experience you can lean many lessons involving your true worth and this will help you to give and receive unconditional love.

Until these lessons are learned however you may approach relationships in a shallow way, seeking admiration from the wealthy, powerful and those who meet social conventions of beauty as you will feel that these associations enhance your own beauty and self esteem.

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