You are both deeply committed to helping each other see the best in each other and in your outlook during a crisis.
Your meeting each other may have been the result of a major life turning point or crisis. Sun person helps Pholus person look on the bright side, whatever their circumstances may be. Pholus person may help Sun person shake up their expectations and experience a life beyond what they expected.
Pholus person can help Sun person unleash their talents and take bigger risks to share their gifts with the world, Sun person helps Pholus person find confidence as a leader during difficult times.
You both can easily help each other to make the best of a challenging situation.
Small decisions and twists of fate may bring you two together, but you will no doubt have a large scale impact on each other’s lives. Sun person helps Pholus person discover their leadership potential and personal gifts. Sun person can steer Pholus person to being more optimistic and even opportunistic, making the most out of any situation.
Pholus person helps Sun person break through stagnation and helps them find dramatic ways to embrace change and crisis to their own benefit. Pholus person can help Sun person turning small decisions and actions into large scale changes.
Both can help each other rise to greater confidence and power in even the most difficult of times.
You may find it challenging to work through dramatic turning points and milestones as a couple.
Sun person may minimize the risk or impact of major life changes, while Pholus person is acutely aware of the impact that even small upsets can cause. Sun person may think Pholus person is acting like “Chicken Little,” claiming the sky is falling when this is not the case.
Instead of criticizing Pholus person and assuming they are over-reacting, Sun person would do well to take heed to Pholus person's warnings as Pholus person is usually trying to protect Sun person. Yet Pholus person can also take a page from Sun person's book and try to be more optimistic.
If they do this, Pholus person may come to feel more empowered and confident, remembering that there is opportunity and potential even in dramatic crises or cataclysmic events.
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