You both seek higher wisdom and meaning in every experience. You can help each other find this sense of purpose.
You both may try your best to repress your desires for hedonism or pleasure. Your desire for pragmatism and stability may be challenged by dramatic situations that lead to life changing milestones.
When this happens, you both become philosophical. You may both become willing to advocate for each other or become activists to seek justice in the midst of chaos and change.
You can also inspire each other to wander much farther from your comfort zone than you may have originally been willing to go because of catalysts you endure together.
You may also both try to outrun your fears of confinement but crisis situations may bring the two of you together in unusual ways, giving you renewed passion to commit to each other.
The two of you are brought together to help remind each other of how to find security and stay grounded in the midst of life changing crises.
You may both work hard to establish a solid foundation. You may seek a calm, steady and reliable atmosphere where you can build a future together.
Yet in spite of your best attempts to preserve tradition and maintain order and control in the relationship, you both may be challenged to adapt your expectations.
You may long to help each other return to the past, yet through this relationship you can both help each other make peace with the past and accept change.
Even overwhelming change can be broken down into manageable steps since the two of you know how to prioritize.
Your desires to take responsibility for each other can help motivate you both to accept what you fear head on.
You both have an explosive, erratic and chaotic dynamic in your relationship.
You are brought together under unusual circumstances and may not be able to make and keep commitments.
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Sign up freeThough you may both feel a strong desire to break free from tradition and explore your shared interests, your desire for independence and freedom may lead you to alienate each other at times.
You may both also vacillate between trying to help each other weather a storm and also pushing each other away because of the rebellious energy that can come into the relationship.
You may both also explode with intense energy, especially when you are feeling under stress and pressure.
Your relationship may become stronger because you both find ways to remain supportive of each other even as you face unusual or unexpected catalysts for change.
You may help each other break free from restrictions and constraints by helping each other open your minds.
You are both likely to bring explosive awareness into each other’s lives as you trigger each other to align with higher ideals.
This can also be a healing relationship. You both may come into each other’s lives at a time of dramatic turmoil when both of you are questioning your spirituality.
You can be compassionate and nurturing to each other. You may also try to keep your deeper feelings at bay, yet you both can’t resist becoming completely lost in each other.
Explosive and dramatic changes you face together can bring out the unconditional love and compassion you feel for each other.
This is a great relationship for romance, love and family. This bond is especially powerful when you are both facing life changing milestones.
You may both come to redefine love, relationships and spirituality because of your compassionate and empathic relationship to each other.
Your shared creativity and intuitive instincts can help see each other through overwhelming conflicts.
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