Mercury and Chiron aspects in the Composite Chart: How do we help each other understand and communicate about our core wounds?

Mercury-Chiron-Conj.jpg Mercury conjunct Chiron in the composite chart

As a couple, you both need to overcome insecurities related to communication.

Ironically, your shared insecurities and wounds are part of what you each most need to communicate about in order to strengthen the relationship.

This connection can trigger your hidden wounds and unresolved issues to come to the surface. The two of you can find healing and perspective through your communication with each other.

This relationship can be fertile ground for healing and understanding. You are both able to openly express your ideas and beliefs about past traumas and wounds.

Secrets you’ve both kept from others may be shared more easily in this relationship and disclosing your past fears, wounds and traumas can lead to new insights and understanding.

Mercury sextile Chiron in the composite chart

The two of you easily feel comfortable with each other.

You may both be open about your thoughts and ideas. Your intellectual connection is strong and this helps you both talk about your perceived limitations and past wounds.

You may help each other to better understand your potential. You can help each other put your fears and traumas into perspective.

This relationship can be important to helping both of you express your wounds and traumas in candid ways and you can help each other rationalize and make sense of the lessons that accompany your past challenges.

Mercury square Chiron in the composite chart

You may both have a lot to learn from each other, but communication is easily stifled in this relationship.

This can be because you both haven’t dealt with past traumas and wounds. This relationship can motivate you both to deal with underlying insecurities related to feeling heard and validated.

Until you both are able to find the courage and confidence to speak up for yourselves and express your unique ideas and intuition, this relationship may hit stumbling blocks.

You may both be quick to project your fears and insecurities onto each other.

This relationship can be motivation for you both as you each may feel compelled to work through your past issues so you can improve your communication.

Mercury trine Chiron in the composite chart

You are both likely to have an easy flow of communication and understanding.

Your ability to empathize with each other’s ideas and past wounds can help you both overcome past wounds and traumas.

You know how to help put each other at ease. This relationship can also be a springboard for healing and growth for both of you.

You instinctively understand each other’s unique intuitive impulses and even if it’s hard for you both to communicate your needs to others, you may feel as if you have a shared intellectual bond.

Mercury opposite Chiron in the composite chart

You are both likely to want to open lines of communication, but past traumas and wounds can block the flow of expression.

You may both try to hinder your ideas or censor yourselves or each other so as not to trigger past wounds.

This will only allow your communication to go so far before you both become stuck in your own perspectives rather than really hearing and understanding each other.

You both need to disarm the tension in the relationship by dealing with and getting clarity on your own personal wounds and traumas from the past. As you work on healing individually, you’ll both be able to enhance the connection in the relationship.

You may need to work to find the right balance between sharing your perspectives with each other and also honoring the unique knowledge you both have from past hardships.

Mercury quincunx Chiron in the composite chart

You are both eager to communicate your ideas and needs to each other, but past wounds may make this difficult.

This is a challenging aspect for romance and partnerships, yet the two of you will be essential catalysts in each other’s lives.

Part of the purpose of the relationship is to help each other overcome past traumas. You can help each other put past wounds in a new and empowering perspective.

Though it is not easy, the two of you can work together to overcome insecurities and create deeper understanding of each other’s experiences and unique perspectives.

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