Mercury and Lilith aspects in the Composite Chart: How do we bring out each other’s ability to express our rebellious, independent, autonomous nature?

Mercury-Lilith-Conj.jpg Mercury conjunct Lilith in the composite chart

You are both easily able to trigger each other’s creativity and desire for independence and freedom.

Even in a close and intimate relationship, the two of you naturally provoke each other to reveal your wild side and this relationship may be filled with surprises.

You both easily express your hidden and taboo ideas and plans. This relationship can seem quite liberating, especially when it comes to your ideas about sexuality.

You may help awaken each other’s subconscious sexual fantasies and ideas. Though neither one of you will allow the other to influence your thinking, you both naturally have a powerful impact on helping each other unleash subconscious ideas.

This relationship stimulates both of you and compels you each to think in more individualistic and self-serving ways, though you’re still able to align your vision and goals enough to collaborate with each other.

Mercury sextile Lilith in the composite chart

You are both easily open to helping each other to express your unique desires, especially when it comes to sexuality.

This relationship brings up your shared attraction and you may help each other break all the rules and encourage each other’s independence and free thinking.

This relationship allows each of you enough breathing room to speak your mind and not worry about hurting each other’s feelings.

You are both able to express your subconscious desires in dramatic ways. You can also both pave the way for imagination, fantasies and exploration of taboo dreams and desires.

Mercury square Lilith in the composite chart

You both have difficulties expressing your individual needs, plans and desires in this relationship.

You may each try to stifle your true strengths and needs so as to not rock the boat, but doing so only leads to explosive arguments. Tension in the relationship can come to a head when you both feel you aren’t being truly heard or understood.

Yet if you are both willing to speak about your subconscious wishes and ideas, you can come to a shared understanding.

Your deeper desires and true creativity and sense of individuality can be hard for each other to accept at first.

Yet if you are both able to find the motivation to act on your subconscious desires while also finding balance in the partnership, you’ll be able to spice up your intimate life and also be true to your independent desires and needs.

Mercury trine Lilith in the composite chart

You are both likely to stimulate each other’s imagination and communication when it comes to taboo topics.

You’ll each find it easy to express your dark and devious side and you may find each other’s edgy raw power to be enticing and exciting.

Rather than clashing, you both easily work together to fulfill each other’s desires. You know how to encourage each other to be true to yourselves.

Though you can both be individualistic thinkers, you are also both likely to encourage each other’s empowerment and liberation.

You are both able to help each other expose your deeper fantasies in bold and colorful ways and you can help each other find catharsis through this relationship.

Mercury opposite Lilith in the composite chart

You are both drawn to each other and may be fascinated by the secret complexities each partner has brewing beneath the surface.

Yet this relationship can be challenging for you both. You may try to project an ideal image onto each other.

In doing so, you may both try to deny who each other truly is. When you both actually see each other’s true nature, raw power, and subconscious desires, coming through, you may become angry or feel betrayed.

Yet this can be a dynamic and empowering relationship if you are both willing to recognize and accept each other for who you both are.

You both need to find balance between the acceptable and diplomatic nature of your relationship, and the creativity you both bring to the table in your rebellious Shadow nature.

Mercury quincunx Lilith in the composite chart

You may both have to work through awkward feelings you have about each other.

You both try to suppress your true power and taboo desires in order to impress each other or maintain the status quo.

Yet this can lead you both to feel stifled. You may also both try to take authority over each other, and this can lead to backlash in the relationship.

This relationship can provide important lessons for each of you when it comes to showing your individual power and creativity without inhibiting your rebellious side.

Part of the lesson you both face is to accept each other, even your subconscious fear, anger, or taboo fantasies.

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