Lilith in Cancer conjunct Lilith in Cancer in the synastry chart

How can you both create a space where you feel safe enough to expose your vulnerabilities to each other?

As I cast my gaze upon the celestial map of your relationship, I can't help but notice an intriguing facet, the conjunction of Person1's Lilith in Cancer and Person2's Lilith in Cancer. This is akin to a cosmic dance, where the dancers mirror each other's moves, adding a fascinating rhythm to your relationship.

Person1, your Lilith in Cancer seeks emotional depth and intimate connections. You crave a safe and nurturing environment like a hermit crab seeking its shell, and you fiercely protect those who find shelter in your emotional realm. Similarly, Person2, your Lilith in Cancer also yearns for emotional security and profound bonding.

When these two Liliths in Cancer come together, it's like two crabs meeting at the bottom of the ocean. Both are seeking the same thing – a safe place to call home. In this dance, you both move in sync, understanding each other's need for emotional security and providing that sanctuary for each other. This conjunction can create a strong emotional bond, as you both innately understand the other's desire for a deep, intimate connection.

However, this is not all rosy. Two crabs in a shell can make for a tight fit. There may be times when you both retreat into your shells, not wanting to expose your vulnerabilities. This can lead to a standoff, each waiting for the other to come out first. It's a delicate dance, one that requires patience and understanding.

Remember, the crab also has a hard shell. While you both yearn for emotional depth, there may be a tendency to shield your true feelings, to protect your soft underbelly. This could lead to misunderstandings if not addressed. It's important to find a way to open up to each other, to show your vulnerabilities without fear.

In this dance of the Liliths, you are both the dancers and the audience. It's a performance that has its highs and lows, but with understanding and patience, you can turn this into a beautiful ballet of emotional connection and intimacy.

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