What impacts do you notice on your expressions of affection when external forces encourage assertive pursuit, contrasting with your innate warmth and loyalty?

As Eros, the asteroid of passion and desire, zips through the fiery sign of Aries, it forms a quincunx aspect with your natal Venus in the regal realm of Leo. This is a bit like trying to write a love poem using only sports metaphors; it's certainly possible, but it might lead to a few raised eyebrows or giggles. The quincunx is a cosmic nudge that asks you to adjust and blend energies that are usually at odds with each other.

Eros in Aries is all about the thrill of the chase, the kind of energy that makes you want to run through the airport to stop someone from boarding their flight (romantic, but not recommended for various reasons, including security). However, your Venus in Leo prefers a grand gesture on a more luxurious, sun-drenched stage. The usual warmth and loyalty that you bring to relationships may now be tinged with an unusual restlessness, an itch to shake things up.

When Eros throws a spanner in the works, it's like a flamboyant Leo actor being directed by a no-nonsense Aries stunt coordinator. You might find yourself impulsively wanting to pursue someone or something with a vigor that's surprising even to you. It's as if your normal, dignified approach to courtship has been swapped for a pair of running shoes and a, "Wait, wait, I just thought of another reason why you should adore me!" This might feel out of character, but it could also be exhilarating if you're up for the ride.

The key here is to infuse this assertive energy with your innate sense of loyalty and showmanship. Imagine yourself as a knight errant with a flair for the dramatic: you're not just jousting for honor, you're jousting with pyrotechnics and a live band. You're learning to blend your natural propensity for loyalty and generous affection with a newfound gusto for going after what you want.

While Eros is setting a brisk pace, your task is not to sprint to the finish line of affection but to find a way to run with a royal wave and a warm smile. You're being invited to explore a different dynamic in your relationships, one where you might surprise yourself with your own boldness. Just try not to trample anyone with your enthusiasm - Your charm is in your roar, not the stampede.

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