During this period, as the Lunar Node transits in Virgo, it forms a sextile to your composite Lilith in Cancer, triggering a profound exploration of your shared dynamics. Your relationship might have to navigate a nuanced dance between service and sacrifice, between independence and interdependence, liberating you from past patterns that have kept you emotionally shackled.

Lilith in Cancer in your composite chart symbolizes a deep-seated, almost primal, emotional and domestic bond, which comes forth in a fiercely protective, nurturing, yet at times unreasonable and uncontrollable manner. This transit unearths those turbulent waters, nudges you to plunge into the depths of discomfort, where your fears, insecurities and pain lie festering. Accepting these 'dark' aspects of your shared persona can be transformative, fostering a deeper connection and intimacy.

The True Node in Virgo suggests your joint purpose leans towards order, efficiency, practicality, and service. Your mutual journey is about perfecting the art of being helpfully involved without feeling overwhelmed. The sextile aspect acts as a fortuitous conduit, harnessing the practical, discerning, analytical energy of Virgo to reframe those seething, often irrational, Cancerian emotions. Together, you have the potential to integrate these diverse energies, giving birth to a compassionate understanding that melds emotional depth with practical wisdom.

Recognize that during this transit, your relationship may experience a period of tension, as the Virgoan urge to 'fix' contends with the Cancerian demand to simply 'feel'. But such tension is not without purpose, its subtle undercurrents stretching you emotionally, mentally and spiritually. By encouraging open dialogue, empathic listening and constructive criticism, you can ensure that your relationship evolves to be more nurturing, grounded, and resilient. It's an opportunity to redefine your shared values, bringing to the fore a more authentic, balanced expression of your union, that nurtures as well as nourishes.

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