During Lilith's transit in Aries, your union may encounter a challenging square formed against your composite Eros in Cancer.

This forceful aspect suggests a brewing tug-of-war between your intrinsic need for emotional safety (Eros in Cancer) versus a nagging compulsion towards fresh individualistic adventures (Lilith in Aries). It's a turbulent dance of your primal desires clashing against each other's comfort zones, challenging your relationship to maintain its harmony.

Take a party for instance: you enter the scene together, comfortable and excited. Yet, as the night unfolds, a vibrant intensity descends. One of you, captivated by the energy of independence, might aim to break free from the cocoon of the relationship and take the lead in discussions, events or interactions. The Aries in Lilith beckons a ferocious ambition, a ruthless drive for independence. On the other hand, the partner with Eros in Cancer will subconsciously prefer to retreat, remaining in the well-treaded area of familiarity, clinging onto emotional security.

Furthermore, Lilith in Aries may instigate a certain raw, curiously magnetic charm that can unintentionally seem provocative, creating waves of unease and fear of abandonment for the Cancerian partner.

Through this period, know it's not personal. It's a chemistry of celestial energies at play. Maintain non-judgment and open communication to understand each other's needs. Consider finding a middle ground where one doesn't feel constricted or smothers their partner's longing for intimacy. Appreciate the unique flavors both of you bring to the table. The instinctual will for singular identity from Aries, and the nurturing, protective aura of Cancer can exist in a complementary dance, if room for understanding is given.

Embrace your respective spaces, learning to balance them healthily with love, trust, and respect. This delicate equilibrium is possible when you lean into understanding each other's inherent desires, making way for a balanced journey as an entity.

(Remember, this is an interpretative reading, allowing room for your personal experience and wisdom).

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