As Lilith transits through Cancer and opposes your composite Pluto in Sagittarius, you find yourselves confronting the deeper, perhaps unspoken aspects of your relationship. The essence of Lilith can stir intense emotional waters, and in the nurturing sign of Cancer, these waters become a cauldron of transformation, challenging certain foundational beliefs and feelings you share. Here, the maternal, protective energy clashes with Plutonian themes of control, upheaval, and rebirth within the relationship.

During this transit, expect to feel a tug between the desire for emotional security and the drive for freedom or exploration. Lilith's influence brings to the fore issues around dependency and care-whether these aspects are evenly balanced or a source of contention. Pluto in Sagittarius typically inclines to seek truth, expansion, and transformation, pushing boundaries which might now feel more like encroachments than shared adventures.

This might be a time when hidden resentments or suppressed grievances surface. Lilith opposing Pluto could manifest as a crisis point where these feelings cannot stay hidden any longer. The challenge lies in addressing them with honesty without letting them entirely dismantle the emotional core of your union.

You are both called to navigate this passage by maintaining open communication. Embrace the intensity as an opportunity to explore what truly binds you together beyond comfort zones and surface level interactions. You might discover profound truths about each other that alter the way you perceive and engage with each other.

This period demands that you confront the power dynamics in your relationship. Are they equitable or skewed? The answer may require recalibrating roles or expectations you have of one another. Remember, the presence of conflict is not indicative of a failing relationship but rather an opportunity for growth and deeper understanding. Harness the transformative energy of this transit to strengthen your bond by acknowledging and integrating the darker, often ignored or hidden facets of your partnership.

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