With Lilith transiting in Cancer forming a quincunx to your composite Venus in Capricorn, you may encounter an intriguing, albeit challenging, dynamic in your relationship. This period calls for adjustment and understanding as emotional undercurrents become more pronounced. Lilith's influence in sensitive Cancer stirs deep, often unspoken feelings in the relationship, urging a confrontation with emotional needs and nurturing aspects that might have been overlooked or suppressed.

Underneath the surface, there's a brewing tension between the desire for emotional security and the established, perhaps rigid, expressions of affection and expectations typified by Venus in Capricorn. You might find yourselves wrestling with conflicting needs-where one seeks comfort and emotional connection, the other might cling to traditional markers of commitment and stability, potentially causing feelings of dissatisfaction or neglect.

Imagine a scenario where one of you has received an important career opportunity requiring relocation. This opportunity aligns perfectly with the Capricornian energy-ambitious and career-focused. However, it triggers insecurities or feelings of abandonment influenced by Lilith in Cancer, especially if the move is perceived as neglecting the emotional foundation of your partnership. The key is not only in addressing these surface issues but diving deeper into why these feelings are surfacing now.

Communication becomes crucial. It's important to express not just the logistical concerns about such changes, but also the emotional undercurrents that are often harder to articulate. This period demands that you listen not only to respond but to understand and validate each other's emotional landscapes.

To navigate this transit successfully, consider creating new rituals that reinforce your commitment and comfort with each other. These could range from regular check-ins about feelings and fears to perhaps setting aside dedicated times for deeper emotional intimacy. The groundwork you lay now in understanding and adjusting to each other's emotional needs and fears will strengthen your bond for future challenges and growth.

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