As Lilith transits through Leo and forms a quincunx aspect to your composite Eros in Aries, you may experience an intensification of passions that challenge the harmonious expression of affection and desire within your relationship. This transit highlights the need to adjust how you assert your individuality and express creativity, in ways that might initially feel unfathomable or uncomfortable to both of you.

Lilith in Leo brings up themes around the raw expression of your true self and may stir up ego conflicts or drama. Leo's flamboyant energy clashes with the unconscious desires Lilith evokes, causing a tug-of-war between seeking recognition and dealing with obscure, often unaddressed issues related to self-esteem or self-worth within the parameters of your union.

Meanwhile, Eros in Aries symbolizes a straightforward, ardently passionate interaction. Eros here is about the excitement of the chase and the direct expression of sexual and romantic energy. However, the quincunx asks for an adjustment, a pivot that neither planet is comfortable making. You are being prompted to find a middle ground where passion does not override deep-seated needs for validation and acceptance.

During this transit, it is crucial to cultivate awareness around these dynamics. Moments where one or both of you feel overlooked or where personal achievements become a battleground must be addressed with sensitivity. The impulse may be to react immediately and dramatically, but the underlying issues require subtlety and patience to uncover and heal.

Open communication about insecurities or feelings of inadequacy can transform this challenging aspect into a strengthening pillar for your relationship. Embrace the heat of Eros by channeling it into creative or artistic endeavors together, rather than letting it ignite latent conflicts. Recognizing and respecting each other's need for both independence and admiration will help in navigating this period with fewer scars and much learning, bringing a deeper connection and understanding between you.

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