As Lilith makes its transit through Virgo, squaring your composite Mercury in Sagittarius, your relationship is poised to undergo a communications boot camp. Lilith, the wild outlier, often provokes by pushing boundaries, particularly in meticulous Virgo. Meanwhile, Mercury in Sagittarius enjoys a free-spirited romp through the landscapes of thought and speech. These energies are not, shall we say, traditionally harmonious.

During this astrological weather, you may find your usual dialogues laced with a bit more spice than usual. Virgo's exacting nature, under Lilith's influence, can turn even the most innocent comment into a critique. "Did you mean to make the coffee this strong, or is it an attempt to keep us awake for the next lunar eclipse?" Poor Sagittarius, all expansive and jovial, might not know what hit it.

This square demands that you cultivate patience and deeper listening. Miscommunications may flourish like dandelions. Virgo's detail-oriented critique meets the Sagittarian love for grand narratives. The devil in the details versus the devil-may-care-perhaps literally, considering Lilith's devilish reputation.

The key to navigating this period lies in embracing Virgo's constructive criticism without sacrificing Sagittarian optimism. Think of it as editing a philosophical treatise or proofreading a travel blog-neither job is for the faint of heart or short of wit.

Utilize this time to sharpen your communication tools. It might be helpful to engage in activities that demand precision and clarity. Perhaps a couple's journaling session where you decode each other's dreams and whimsies with the diligence of a Virgoan librarian. Reading aloud to each other-texts that require interpretation and clarity-could smooth the rough edges.

Remember, the challenge here is to blend Virgo's precision with Sagittarius's vision. It's like trying to write poetry with a scalpel-tricky, but surprisingly enlightening. So buckle up, and don't forget to enjoy the bumpy ride! You might arrive at your destination with a few new tricks for talking things through.

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