When Lilith transits through Libra and squares your composite Saturn in Cancer, brace yourselves for a cosmic salsa dance where one of you is trying desperately not to step on the other's toes, but somehow, the rhythm keeps getting you! This celestial alignment stirs the pot in your relationship, spotlighting themes of independence versus security.

Lilith's fiery pass through Libra typically seeks freedom, equality, and a trace of rebellion in how relationships function. This can manifest as a desire to break from conventional ways you interact as a pair. Perhaps there's an urge to redefine your roles or to pursue individual passions that took a back seat. Beneath this, there's a quest for a deeper acknowledgment of each other's uniqueness.

Then, there's your composite Saturn in Cancer casting a watchful eye. Saturn here is the stern teacher who values emotional security, commitment, and has a traditionalist's heart when it comes to relationships. You might find that this placement brings up issues about dependency, with Saturn insisting on clinging to the familiar, fostering a bit of a tug-of-war with Lilith's dash for liberation.

This square can bring tension as one of you might feel stifled or overly reliant on emotional validations from the other. On the upside, there is a chance to reach a new understanding if you navigate these choppy waters with conscious effort. You might learn more profound ways to provide support without encroaching on individual freedom. Embrace the challenge not as a storm but as essential relationship aerobics - stretching and strengthening those emotional muscles.

Spark humor and lightness in your interactions. Maybe initiate a playful "terms of endearment" renegotiation session or a humorous "how independent am I?" quiz night. These jovial activities can ease the strain and remind you why you cherish your bond. Through this transit, the dance of independence and intimacy continues, but now you're both learning new steps.

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