During the transit of Lilith in Libra squaring your composite Chiron in Capricorn, you may find yourselves confronting some significant challenges in your relationship dynamics. The essence of Lilith in Libra brings up issues surrounding fairness, balance, and harmony within relationships, often by triggering latent imbalances. This energy emphasizes the darker side of partnerships, such as hidden resentments or unspoken rules that govern your interactions.

As this force interacts with Chiron in Capricorn, an added dimension is introduced centered on your foundational structures and long-term ambitions. Chiron here exposes vulnerabilities related to authority, achievement, and your shared goals or purposes. Often, this may manifest as one or both of you feeling inadequate or like an outsider in fulfilling the roles you perceive are expected of you within the relationship.

The square aspect suggests a pronounced tension between these two energies. You may experience conflict between your desire for an equal, harmonious partnership (Lilith in Libra) and the pain or challenges related to your shared responsibilities and commitments (Chiron in Capricorn). It is a time when the 'shoulds' and obligations you've taken on together may feel more burdensome, possibly leading to feelings of coldness or detachment.

To navigate this period, focus on openly addressing issues of imbalance. Where is the give-and-take in your relationship not equal? Lilith's influence encourages you to confront these inequities directly, while Chiron asks for healing and new approaches to old responsibilities. Acknowledge where either of you might feel overburdened or underappreciated, especially in terms of shared goals and external obligations.

Though challenging, this transit provides an opportunity for significant growth by revealing what is often avoided in day-to-day interactions. Approaching these revelations with an eye towards healing and rebalancing can strengthen your bond, allowing you to move forward with greater integrity and mutual support.

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