As Lilith transits Libra and forms a square to your composite Juno in Cancer, you may encounter a period marked by transformative challenges in how you maintain harmony and fairness within your partnership. This transit provokes a deeper examination of both the shadowy elements and the ideals in your relationship dynamics, particularly around commitments and emotional security.
Lilith in Libra brings up themes of fairness, equality, and balance, but its dark side influences the surfacing of feelings of resentment or unfairness if either of you feel the relationship lacks reciprocity. These feelings might not always be expressed openly, as Lilith tends to operate more subtly or unconsciously. The urge to address any perceived injustices or imbalances can provoke tension, especially if you fear jeopardizing the relationship's harmony.
Simultaneously, Juno in Cancer emphasizes a deep need for emotional bonding and security. You both crave an environment where emotional expression and nurturing are paramount. When squared by Lilith, these issues of security and nurturing can feel threatened or undermined by the undercurrents of imbalance brought up by Lilith. You may find yourselves questioning whether your emotional needs and desires for a stable home life are being met and respected.
The key to navigating this transit effectively lies in addressing these emerging issues openly. Embrace the discomfort that discussions about inequality can bring. Advocating for a balanced approach to give-and-take in your relationship is crucial. Understanding that these challenges are opportunities to rid yourselves of outdated dynamics and establish a more authentic and equitable foundation can transform this trying aspect into a strengthening pillar for both of you.
This transit is indeed intense and potentially unsettling, but it also holds the promise of allowing you both to grow closer through expressions of vulnerability and adjustments in how you nurture each other and share responsibilities. These adjustments will fortify your bonds and honor both individual needs and your collective purpose.
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