When Lilith transits Scorpio and squares your composite Pluto in Virgo, expect to buckle up for a cosmic rollercoaster ride, adding a spark-or perhaps a little wildfire-to your relationship dynamic. This period is not for the faint-hearted but for those who dare to dive deep into the transformational waters of change.

Lilith's energy in Scorpio stirs up a potent mix of desire, secrets, and deeper truths, challenging you both to face aspects of your relationship and yourselves that you might prefer to keep under wraps. Scorpio doesn't do surface-level engagements and neither does Lilith. Here, the theme is excavation, bringing to light the hidden facets of your connection. It's like playing emotional archaeologist, except instead of finding dinosaur bones, you're uncovering not-so-prehistoric text messages and the real reason why you're both still arguing about who forgot to take out the trash last Tuesday.

Meanwhile, Pluto's placement in detail-oriented Virgo insists on perfection and control, focusing on the minutiae of your joint life. Pluto here is like that nitpicking aunt who can spot a spot at a hundred paces-nothing escapes this energy. Thus, Lilith's chaotic twist could feel particularly disruptive, as it clashes with Virgo's love for order and routine.

The square aspect intensifies this effect, highlighting struggles for power and dominance in your relationship. You might find yourselves in a tug-of-war, with each secret revealed adding more tension. However, remember that the point of these cosmic provocations is not to drive you apart, but to bring forth a stronger, more authentic union, built on the bedrock of truth, no matter how muddy it might initially appear.

While the journey here is intense, it's also incredibly enriching. Embrace the challenges as opportunities to grow and know each other-and yourselves-more deeply. You'll likely emerge from this transit knowing exactly where you stand, both individually and together, with all illusions stripped away. Just imagine it as spring cleaning, but for the soul; it might get messy, but boy, doesn't that cleared space feel better afterward?

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