As Lilith transits through Virgo, squaring the composite Pluto in Capricorn, you both may find yourselves treading through a thicket of transformative challenges together. This alignment tends to shake the foundations of what may seem like the most orderly parts of your relationship.

During this period, Lilith's raw energy in Virgo urges you to confront and refine the nitty-gritty aspects of your partnership. It's all about the small stuff - those daily routines, habits, or even your health regimens could become arenas where power dynamics are tested and redefined. There might be moments when you feel as if you're both interns in the intensive boot camp of life's smallest details. Yet, this precise focus can lead to significant improvements in how you manage your shared responsibilities.

Pluto's influence from its position in Capricorn, on the other hand, is no less formidable. It compels you to look at underlying issues of control, perhaps related to career, social status, or the ultimate goals of your relationship. Don't be surprised if one of you suddenly turns into a CEO-type trying to restructure everything for efficiency. The square aspect might bring tension and resistance against changes, but remember, the aim here is transformation.

The intersection of Lilith's quest for truth in the details and Pluto's drive for power can stir up a storm, yet it is also ripe with potential for growth. As you both navigate these choppy waters, remember to maintain a grounded perspective. Sometimes, the best way to handle power is to know when to relinquish it or share it democratically (yes, even if it's just deciding who gets to control the TV remote).

Ultimately, this transit asks you to refine how you handle everyday life and to deepen your understanding of each other's influence within the relationship. Embrace the challenge, for it paves the way to a stronger foundation.

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