As Lilith transits through Capricorn, forming a sextile with Pholus in Pisces in your composite chart, you are entering a phase marked by deep, potentially transformative shifts in how you both manage power and responsibility within your relationship. This period invites you to look at the underlying structures of your partnership, addressing themes of authority, control, and autonomy.
Lilith's energy in Capricorn can unveil hidden aspects of your relationship, particularly those related to the more pragmatic and sometimes harsh realities you face together. Issues such as shared finances, distribution of household duties, or career priorities may come to the forefront. You might find that these areas are where suppressed grievances or unspoken rules have created a blockage, preventing a completely open connection.
Meanwhile, Pholus in Pisces brings a sensitive, almost spiritual dimension to this dynamic. Pholus acts as a catalyst for release and transformation, often by revealing the impact of seemingly small or insignificant actions. In Pisces, this influence is deeply intuitive and emotionally charged, prompting both of you to look beyond the mundane world and into the spiritual or psychological forces at play.
The sextile between Lilith and Pholus suggests that these revelations will not only be about challenges but also about healing. There is an opportunity here to creatively and gently address these buried or avoided issues. By integrating Lilith's call for honesty and autonomy with Pholus's urge for forgiveness and release, you can both move towards a more profound understanding and respect for each other's deepest fears and desires.
An illustrative scenario during this transit might be deciding to openly discuss topics that are typically sources of conflict, such as your expectations of each other. You might find that what starts as a practical conversation about responsibilities evolves into a deeper dialogue about trust, support, and mutual understanding, strengthening the foundation of your relationship.
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