As Lilith transits through Capricorn and forms a square to Pholus in Libra in your composite chart, your relationship encounters a profound period of transformation. Lilith's energy in Capricorn pushes for autonomy, often manifesting intense emotions related to control, authority, and exposing the darker, hidden sides of structures or norms within your union. The square aspect amplifies challenges, indicating that these themes might not surface gently, projecting strong, almost undeniable urges to address and rectify power imbalances between you.

Pholus in Libra brings a focus to the sudden changes occurring in how you handle conflicts, diplomacy, and fairness. It highlights a tipping point, a small cause yielding a significant effect, where perhaps previously minor irritations or unresolved disputes may now demand immediate attention and resolution. The interplay between Capricorn's steadfastness and Libra's craving for balance may at times feel like a tug-of-war, pushing and pulling at the seams of your shared values and negotiated peace.

This transit encourages you to delve into these darker or more complex issues which you might typically avoid or gloss over in order to maintain harmony. The intensity and raw honesty that Lilith promotes can be unsettling yet also deeply healing. It offers an opportunity to bring to light the unspoken or concealed aspects of your relationship, grappling with questions of fairness, responsibility, and mutual respect.

Facing and integrating these elements can significantly deepen trust and strengthen the bonds between you. However, resistance to confronting these aspects could lead to power struggles, manipulative tactics, or feelings of oppression. It's crucial during this time to navigate these intense dynamics with openness and a willingness to transform. Effective communication and a willingness to engage in uncomfortable, yet necessary conversations can lead to profound growth and rebuilding, more aligned with your true collective values and aspirations.

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