With Pholus transiting in Capricorn trining your composite Lilith in Aries, you find yourselves at a pivotal point where deep, transformative energies are propelling your relationship towards significant change. Pholus's influence in Capricorn brings a slow-burning catalyst into your lives, a stirring of structures and foundations that you both had thought were stable and unshakeable. This transit asks you to evaluate the sustainability and practicality of your partnership, urging transformations that are both necessary and inevitable for growth.

Simultaneously, Lilith in Aries in your composite chart evokes a fierce urge for independence and authenticity within the relationship. Lilith's bold fire energy demands that suppressed desires or unaddressed grievances come to the forefront. This placement is all about confronting the raw truths that can no longer be ignored.

As these energies interact, you may find yourselves challenged to balance the structural reshaping brought by Pholus with the passionate, sometimes rebellious callings of Lilith. Imagine a scenario where one or both of you are offered a career opportunity that would mean relocating. This situation tests your relationship's structure (Capricorn) and the individual desires and ambitions (Aries). The challenge here is to negotiate these changes without losing sight of each other's needs and the shared goals of the relationship.

This transit doesn't merely highlight the tensions or challenges but significantly, it provides the momentum to foster greater honesty and integrity in your connection. By embracing the lessons of Pholus and Lilith, you are empowered to rebuild or realign your relationship dynamics based on a more authentic foundation. This period, though intense, enriches your bond, teaching that true strength in a relationship lies in its ability to evolve and adapt by embracing each partner's deepest truths and aspirations.

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