As Pholus transits through Capricorn, forming a quincunx with your composite Lilith in Taurus, it heralds a period of profound, albeit subtle, transformations within the dynamics of your relationship. This transit highlights the tension between the structured transformation triggered by Pholus and the raw, unyielded expressions of desires and subconscious urges represented by Lilith.

During this phase, it's likely that the two of you will encounter situations where your foundational values and the more instinctual, less rational aspects of your connection are at odds. For example, consider a scenario where one of you receives a lucrative job offer in a new city. Normally, a move could symbolize a Capricorn-like ambition and practical step forward. However, with Lilith's energy in the mix, the other might feel a deep-seated, almost inexplicable opposition, focusing instead on the sensual comforts and stability (Taurian qualities) that your current environment provides.

The quincunx aspect implies a need for adjustment. The energies of Pholus and Lilith do not blend smoothly but instead force a recalibration of how you handle growth and comfort, transformation and stability. It's essential here to address these conflicting needs thoughtfully. Ignoring the discomfort or suppressing the underlying issues could lead to sudden disruptions or eruptions in the relationship, typical of a repressed Lilith reacting to being cornered.

Negotiation is key. You may find that speaking openly about your fears of losing stability or your desires for advancement can help bridge the gap between these energies. This transit teaches the art of compromise and the beauty in blending security with growth.

Throughout this period, be mindful of the undercurrents in your relationship. Embrace these transformative energies by fostering an environment where both can discuss potentially disruptive topics or decisions with candor and empathy. This approach can gradually integrate the challenging aspects of Pholus and Lilith, leading to a more mature and profound connection.

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