As Eros transits through Virgo, squaring your composite Lilith in Gemini, your relationship encounters a phase where desires and communication may feel mishandled or misunderstood. Eros in Virgo seeks purity and perfection in the expression of love and sexuality, which can lead to a highly analytical approach towards intimate matters. This often prompts a more critical atmosphere as you both might find yourselves scrutinizing the details of your interactions and connections, rather than simply enjoying them.

On the other hand, Lilith in Gemini in your composite chart embodies a wild, untamed energy that thrives on intellectual stimulation, and a certain rebellious streak when it comes to conforming to traditional expressions of partnership. The square aspect adds a challenging layer, as Gemini's playful and sometimes superficial approach clashes with Virgo's insistence on depth and detail. You may find that your conversations are more charged during this period, possibly provoking either or both of you to express darker thoughts or secrets which, under different circumstances, might have remained concealed.

This dynamic can stir both friction and an intense magnetic pull between you. The key lies in managing Virgo's criticality and Gemini's capriciousness. Harnessing the diligence of Virgo can help you both analyze what needs to be improved in your communication patterns, while embracing Gemini's adaptability will allow you to navigate through these revelations with greater ease and less judgment.

To balance these energies, focus on creating an environment where openness in expressing vulnerabilities is supported. This can transform potential misunderstandings or conflicts into deeper understanding and acceptance. Practical Virgo and communicative Gemini, when working harmoniously, can significantly contribute to refining the way love and desire are expressed and experienced between you, paving the way to a richer, more rounded mutual understanding.

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