Venus and Lilith aspects in the Synastry Chart: How do you maintain attraction and independence in this relationship?

12andus
By 12andus

Venus-Lilith-Harm.jpg Venus and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart

This combination is a celebration of the wild feminine energy within. Both Lilith person and Venus person have a strong admiration for each other but also enough security and self-worth to not overstep each others’ boundaries.

Venus person sees the beauty in Lilith person's edgy, wild nature. Lilith person appreciates Venus person's stability and honesty.

Both can help each other make accept their beauty and creativity. Lilith person may look to Venus person to help them express their unique gifts and talents in creative ways and to validate their beauty and heal wounds regarding body image or self-worth.

Venus person can find deeper acceptance of inner beauty and self-love by following Lilith person's carefree and nonconformist style.

Venus trine, sextile or semi-sextile Lilith in the synastry chart

This pair inspires each other to accept their inner value and beauty and to be unapologetic in trusting their deeper instincts.

Venus person finds excitement and is inspired by Lilith person's passion and raw emotion. Lilith person's emotional depths and edginess can leave Venus person feeling invigorated and stir their passions.

Venus can learn to push the envelop when it comes to pleasure and sexuality and can deepen their understanding of their own hidden instincts. Lilith person can make peace with past wounds buy coming to understand their true inner beauty thanks to Venus person's influence.

Venus opposite, square or semi-square Lilith in the synastry chart

This pairing can exacerbate conflicts regarding beauty, value and self-worth for each person. At the same time, each can learn to stretch beyond their comfort zone and face deeper, subconscious wounds and insecurities.

Lilith person may feel insecure about their role in Venus person's life or may feel like they have to fight to gain Venus person's approval. At the same time, Lilith person may feel overwhelmed or stifled by Venus person's attention or need for admiration.

Venus person can learn to be more self-sufficient and can learn about their own inner value as a result of Lilith person's influence. Even so, this wake up call may come after much conflict. Lilith person may initially annoy Venus person because they insist on having their own way.

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