Composite Eros in the houses: How do we express our desires and obsession for each other?

Eros-12-Harm.jpg Composite Eros in the 1st house

You are both likely to stimulate each other’s sexual fantasies and desires.

The attraction you feel for each other may be immediate and obvious to others. You may fetishize each other’s appearance or some aspect of each other’s personalities.

You can encourage each other to explore your fantasies and desires and may be overt about your sexuality. There is no fear of taboo or intention to conceal your attraction to each other.

You can also become obsessed with some specific aspect of each other’s personality, image or appearance. You may initially become fascinated with superficial aspects of each other’s identity rather than getting to know each other on a more nuanced level, yet there is a powerful and intense attraction you feel to each other.

Composite Eros in the 2nd house

You may be attracted to each other’s physical appearance and romantic nature.

You understand how to comfort each other, and your nurturing style can be part of the arousal and attraction. This relationship can bring out the sensuality and pleasure you both find in enjoying your favorite meals, music, art, or other luxuries.

This relationship can bring out your passion and obsession with material comforts. You may also be aroused by each other because of your wealth, resources, security and physical beauty.

You may be attracted to each other because of an infatuation with your style of dress or other physical or material aspects of your relationship. You may help each other share fantasies related to wealth, money, comfort, and your favorite creature comforts.

Alcohol, gourmet food and sweets can also be part of the arousal and attraction to each other. You can help each other explore your sexual fetishes and fantasies related to each other’s sense of material security and comfort.

Composite Eros in the 3rd house

You may have a gift for tantalizing each other with your words.

You crave sexual communication and can help each other explore your fantasies and desires through texting, pillow talk, or seductive conversations. You may stimulate each other’s arousal and desires because of the way you share your ideas.

Your desires for each other can be based on plans and ideals. Imagination and mental stimulation plays a larger role in the sexual connection you have to each other. You may be able to help each other explore your fantasies long distance because you don’t actually have to touch each other to turn each other on.

Composite Eros in the 4th house

You both have sexual desires to each other based on your ability to make each other feel at home.

You can easily nurture each other, and this helps you both let down your guard and explore your deeper fantasies. You may reserve your sexual arousal and interests and only reveal your shared desires and fantasies when you feel secure with each other.

Privacy is a big part of the allure in this relationship, and you may both have a discreet attraction to each other, reserving your sexual desires for when you are both in the comfort and privacy of your own home.

Setting and environment play a role in your arousal and attraction to each other. You may have fantasies related to domestic roles or places you both associate with home and comfort.

Composite Eros in the 5th house

You are both playful and flirty and this is part of your sexual attraction to each other.

Through this connection you are both likely to find pleasure and joy and this helps you both become more comfortable with your sexual interests. You boost each other’s confidence and can empower each other to be more open about your unique sexual fantasies and interests.

You can also find pleasure and enjoyment in your connection and even slight competition can be part of your attraction to each other. You may also have fetishes or fantasies related to the arts, performing, and athletic competitions.

Composite Eros in the 6th house

This relationship brings out your shared arousal and attraction to each other based on mundane details.

You may admire each other’s appearance after a long day at work. Seemingly unglamourous routines take on a different meaning as you may both have fantasies and fetishes related to cleaning, organizing, and taking care of tedious details.

You may be fascinated by small details that you both bring to each other’s attention. This relationship can also feature desires and fetishes related to health, healing or being in submissive or subservient positions.

Composite Eros in the 7th house

You can both help to arouse each other’s desires for beauty, balance and harmony.

Through your connection to each other you can bring intense admiration and fascination with exploring sensuality. You’re both deeply concerned with balance and creating fairness in your relationship.

This connection can help you both find the inspiration and encouragement you need to share your sexual fantasies. This relationship is likely to be romantic and sentimental.

You can show each other emotional vulnerability, and this helps to enhance your sexual chemistry and desires for each other. Through your connection you may find a balance between affection, love and sexual energy.

Composite Eros in the 8th house

This is an intense relationship filled with passion and sexually charged energy.

Through your connection to each other you can find it easy to release past wounds and help each other find transformation and empowerment. You can also help each other grow and gain confidence in your sexual interests.

You may be attracted to each other’s authority or power and blending sexual play in ways that bring power dynamics to light can be arousing for you both.

You may also be attracted to each other’s wealth, power or status. Playing sexual games related to the idea of having money, authority or control can be enticing in this relationship. There may be something edgy, intense and taboo about your shared desires and fantasies.

Composite Eros in the 9th house

You can both help each other expand your sexual repertoire.

Your fantasies and desires are based on your shared ideas and vision. Imagination and intellectual stimulation play a big role in your connection to each other. You can encourage each other to explore sexual games and fantasies related to taking risks, gambling, games and specific cultures.

You may find pleasure in playing to each other’s desires for status and autonomy. This relationship can tolerate long distance connections because you are able to excite each other by sharing the prospects of travel and expanding your awareness.

Composite Eros in the 10th house

You can both experience pleasure and arousal based on your public reputation and career path.

You may inspire each other to pursue a specific career path because it is part of your sexual interest in each other. You may also both have sexual fantasies based on fetishizing some aspects of specific professional roles.

You can help each other explore your desires and fantasies related to being in the office or a workplace setting such as playing “doctor” or exploring dynamics like CEO and assistant.

Your sexual fantasies may draw on traditions and though you both don’t like to stray too far from conventional sexual roles, you may eventually encourage each other to let down your guard and become more open to unconventional experimentation when trust has been established.

Composite Eros in the 11th house

You are both drawn to each other’s unconventional and unique sexual energy.

You may be turned on by shocking and disruptive surprises, preferring spontaneity to planned intimate encounters. You’re also both easily able to expand your minds and find innovative ways to satisfy each other’s desires.

Your sexual interests and attraction to each other may seem groundbreaking or unconventional but you are also able to help each other discover your authentic sexual desires. You may help each other break with societal expectations and in doing so can encourage each other to be true to your core identity and individual sexual needs.

Composite Eros in the 12th house

You can help each other explore sexual desires and fantasies related to spirituality.

Illusions and fantasies feature prominently in your sexual connection to each other. For this reason, role play, and sexual games may be an important part of your fascination with each other.

This relationship allows you both to explore the hidden desires that require you both to use your imagination. But creativity is an essential part of your sexual interests and through a shared love of sharing your affection and empathy with each other you’re able to foster a deep, spiritual connection.

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