How can you support each other in expressing your desires without compromising your own needs?

In the complex tapestry of your relationship, Person1, your Lilith in Libra is square to Person2's Eros in Cancer. This aspect creates a dynamic tension that can be both captivating and challenging. With your Lilith in Libra, Person1, you have a deep desire for equilibrium and harmony. However, your pursuit of balance can sometimes lead to indecisiveness and an inability to assert your desires firmly. On the other hand, Person2, your Eros in Cancer desires deep emotional connections and nurturing relationships, often leading to a tendency to care too much, at times, even at the cost of your own emotional wellbeing.

Now, when these two planets square each other, it's like a tango dance between a flamingo and a crab. Yes, you read that right. Picture it: a flamingo, always trying to maintain balance on one leg, and a crab, moving sideways, never straightforward. It's an unusual duo, but it's your duo. This aspect can create an intriguing push-pull dynamic in your relationship. While Person1, you seek balance and fairness, Person2, you yearn for emotional depth and security. This can lead to conflicts as your inherent desires may not always align with each other.

However, this square aspect is not all about clashes and conflicts. It can also stimulate growth and maturity in your relationship. The tension created by this aspect can act as a catalyst, pushing both of you to confront and address your deepest desires and fears. It's like having a personal trainer who, although makes you sweat and struggle, ultimately helps you become stronger and healthier. Remember, the crab and the flamingo, though different, can still dance together. It just requires a little bit of patience, understanding, and practice.

In the midst of this astrological tango, it's important for both of you to remember that differences are not necessarily detriments. They can be the very elements that add spice and flavor to your relationship. So, dance on, you beautiful flamingo and brave crab, and let the music of the cosmos guide your steps.

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