Ah, excellent. Mercury is taking a dip in the homely waters of Cancer and it's making googly eyes at your composite Ascendant in Aries. Must say, you two cosmically connected spirits are in for an adventure. It's kind of like riding a bike. Only, the bike is on fire and, well, so is everything else.
Mercury, that nosy messenger of the gods, is in your 4th house, stirring up the emotional currents. This may bring up a lot of cozy, homemade feelings, a craving for hot cocoa, perhaps...or maybe an increased tendency to bicker over absolutely nothing. Cabinets left open, anyone?
Recognize the square aspect pointing towards your composite Ascendant in Aries: a clear cosmic sign of potential tension. Aries, the ram, doesn't take kindly to any sort of bossing around, even from quicksilver Mercury. It's a sparkling opportunity for you to practice the fine art of negotiation. And by negotiation, of course, we mean resisting the urge to argue about who washes the dishes or which Netflix series to binge next.
Yet as fiery as Aries is, your fiery Ascendant can utilize Cancer's methods of emotional navigation to cool down disputes. Keep a fire extinguisher handy - you know, for the flaming bike scenario - but also remember that with a little bit of Cancer's nurturing touch, even the stubborn ram is less likely to head-butt its way out of problems.
Mercury in Cancer likes heart-to-heart talks that build a foundation of understanding. Aries Ascendant, on the other hand, may have a completely different agenda. Think Iron Chef meets Simon Cowell: a lot of flair and emotional drama, with the ever-present risk of scorching your marshmallows.
Remember to employ patience, dear souls. Running through this blazing field of tension, you might discover a strength you never knew you had. An ability, perhaps, to keep your cool when your partner "accidentally" consumes the last square of dark chocolate. Or those moments when you truly understand each other, making your bond unshakeable - even in the face of Netflix disputes. Such is the magic of Mercury in Cancer square Ascendant in Aries. Life is a ride, after all, even if the bike is somewhat...ablaze.
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