As Mars dances a flamenco in the homey sign of Cancer and sidles up to your composite Pholus in Gemini, expect your relationship to feel like it's living out a scene from an old Western movie. The outlaw (Mars) and the straight-shooting sheriff (Pholus) are having it out on the broad main street of your shared consciousness. Who will draw first?
The spicy sting of Mars in Cancer plays out as a heightened defensiveness in your relationship. Your shared emotional fortress becomes the Alamo you're determined to protect, even if it means cannon-balling your own laundry across the room to make a point about the division of domestic chores. Sound trivial? Not when Mars is wearing the mittens of the Crab, your poker game suddenly becomes an emotional showdown where the words "I play my king" gain startling significance.
Intertwined with this drama is classic Gemini Pholus, the galactic gossiper, amplifying misunderstandings and increasing the decibels of your shared dialogue. It can feel like eavesdropping on your own conversation, complete with gasps and chuckles - though you swear you're not much funnier.
When Mars prances into contact with Pholus, quick decisions, accelerated by a defensiveness and a heightened communication, abound. You may find yourself sending emails feverishly, full of wild promises like "Vegas next weekend, sure!" before you remember that the only Vegas you like is an elliptical galaxy some 50 million light years away.
But fret not. This transit is also a golden opportunity to bring up, and navigate through, conflicts you both have been dodging like acrobatic cowboys. Making decisions on the fly? It's par for the course under this transit. The key is to remember you're both on Team Us, even if Mars is playing a spicy salsa that makes you forget your shared dance routines.
This Mars-Pholus meet-up could feel like improvising a two-person tango without a rehearsal. But hey, let's call it the cha-cha of cosmic connection, one you're voulez-vous-ing through together. See? Still got a few laughs up your planetary sleeves. Old Western never looked so wacky and whimsical.
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