As Lilith makes its transit through Aries, appearing square to your composite Chiron in Aquarius, transformative energy surrounds you. This rare alignment ignites a cosmic dance that hails significant shifts in your bond. Yet, these shifts are far from tranquil; they're a turbulent journey, forcing you to confront the shadowy parts of your relationship.

Lilith in Aries validates your shared desires for independence and autonomy. It fuels a self-assertive streak, provoking passionate debate and heated exchange. However, being too headstrong could lead to conflicts, as concealed resentments could surface, and ego confrontations can become destructive.

Simultaneously, Chiron's presence in Aquarian territory hints at an unusual source of hurt. Perhaps your shared dreams and aspirations have felt misunderstood or rejected, or you've felt like outcasts within your social circles. You may be dealing with collective trauma, technological clashes, or ideological differences that have served as consistent thorns in your relationship.

As the square aspect unfolds, the struggle between Aries independence and Aquarian values could feel painfully amplified. This will manifest as a clash between the 'me' and 'we', resulting in significant reconsideration of what you both value in this relationship.

However, on the other side of this torment is profound healing. Embrace the conflicts as mirrors of underlying insecurities or discomforts. The uncomfortable conversations you are prompted to have can lead to recognising and healing your shared wounds.

Through this period, remember, the growth you undergo will be foundational, as every shake and shift will shake not just you as individuals, but also the relationship itself. Finding a balance between independence and unity, between passion and cool rationality, will be challenging, yet critical. Acknowledge the wounds, their roots and use them as your power source to rebuild stronger connections, fostering a relationship that not just survives, but thrives amidst the exposed vulnerabilities.

Face the transit head-on, for by its end, you should be standing in the rubble of what once was, holding blueprints of the transformative relationship yet to be.

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