With Lilith currently transiting through Cancer and forming a square to your composite Ascendant in Scorpio, you're both embarked on an emotional coaster ride that would make even the most seasoned astrological enthusiast clutch their crystals a little tighter. This celestial dance is stirring the pot in your joint emotional soup, bringing to the surface some deep-seated issues that you might have hoped would simmer down quietly on their own. But with Lilith in the mix, let's just say she prefers her meals a bit more... dramatic.

Lilith's energy can be quite the maverick, emboldening you to express those raw, often unappetizing emotions you typically keep under wraps. Cancer's influence here means these feelings will be deeply tied to your need for security and belonging. Meanwhile, Scorpio on your Ascendant doesn't let anything go without intense scrutiny, adding a dash of obsession into the emotional cocktail. Yes, things might get intense. Expect emotions that have been stewing quietly in the background to demand a prime-time slot in your relationship's daily programming.

Now, navigating this cosmic squall will call for both of you to display a level of emotional bravery. Consider yourselves emotional warriors, albeit with possibly a few more tears and less armor. Despite Lilith's unsettling reputation, she also offers the raw material for profound transformation. Embrace honesty, though wield it with care. Scorpio's transformative power combined with Cancer's intuition can facilitate deep emotional healing if you dare to traverse these murky waters together.

Communication is your lifeline through these choppy seas. Keep it open and heartfelt. While the tension of Lilith square your Ascendant tempts you to retreat into your individual emotional bunkers, resist the urge. Let your vulnerabilities show-yes, it's scary, but the trust it builds can fortify your bond.

Through this transit, remember: what doesn't shake your relationship foundation will only make its structure more intriguing. And as for Lilith, she might just be your unexpected relationship coach, albeit one who's a little rough around the edges.

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