As Lilith transits Cancer and squares your composite Midheaven in Scorpio, the relational energy between you is ripe for transformative but slightly turbulent experiences. Lilith, often represented as the wild, untamed aspect of the psyche, in the nurturing sign of Cancer challenges the way you both deal with vulnerability and emotional security. Meanwhile, the Midheaven in strategic Scorpio thrives on control and power dynamics. This planetary tug-of-war threatens to shake the foundation of how your relationship interacts with the external world.
During this period, you may find that issues involving home, family, or emotional security come to the forefront, demanding to be addressed. This could manifest as a need to redefine who holds the power in making domestic decisions, or possibly a situation arises that tests your resilience as a unit. While Lilith can provoke, she also empowers; this is an opportune moment to confront and heal any deep-seated issues that might be lurking in the shadows of your partnership.
What's also intriguing is Lilith's placement in Cancer resisting the Scorpio Midheaven. Scorpio, ruled by transformative Pluto, demands authenticity and truth, while Cancer, guarded by the Moon, leans toward safety and comfort. This challenging square might lead to scenarios where one of you feels emotionally exposed, while the other is compelled to delve deeper into the uncomfortable truths for growth and transformation. It's a cosmic dance of push and pull, secrets and revelations.
Moreover, the exterior public image or career aspects represented by the Midheaven in Scorpio could also see shifts. Perhaps the relationship influences one's professional life in unexpected ways, such as bringing more emotion into career choices, which might not sit well with Scorpio's desire for control and dominance.
Humorously, instead of "Netflix and chill," it might temporarily become "deep psychological revelations and chill." Consider this transit as an intense couples therapy session, courtesy of the cosmos. Don't be surprised if more skeletons come out of the closet than during an average Halloween sale. Embrace the chaos, since transformation is seldom tidy but often necessary. By navigating these turbulent waters together, the strength and bond of your relationship can emerge more fortified and authentic.
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