When Lilith transits in Scorpio and squares your composite Lilith in Virgo, buckle up; the universe is about to turn your relational dynamics into a cosmic soap opera. Scorpio brings intensity, transformation, and deep, often hidden desires to the surface, while Virgo and its composite placement with Lilith calls for a meticulous approach to matters, bordering sometimes on the obsessively analytical.

In this challenging square, both of you may find yourselves wrestling with a magnetic pull towards issues of power, control, and potentially secretive behaviors within your relationship. Scorpio's influence doesn't do anything by halves, and with Lilith involved, the things normally kept in the shadows could come out in full force. Relationships secrets? They might just demand to be acknowledged. Unspoken resentments? Time to spill the tea, even if the tea is scalding.

Virgo, with its practical and sometimes nit-picking qualities, might find this surge of Scorpio intensity overwhelming or downright chaotic. Lilith in Virgo seeks perfection and often has a detailed script for how the partnership should function, seamlessly pointing out flaws that need "fixing" - which could be as trivial as whose turn it is to take out the recycling, or as critical as whose emotional needs are being neglected. Resist the urge to critique every detail during this time; this transit asks for transformation and letting go of old patterns, not perfecting them.

This square asks both of you to delve deep, confronting uncomfortable truths and embracing the dark side of your desires and fears. It's about finding balance and transformation through accepting each other's imperfections and shadow sides. The process might be a bit like trying to organize a closet while blindfolded - chaotic, unpredictable, but ultimately cleansing.

Use this period to address and heal, rather than criticize, realizing that this isn't about compromise as much as it is about mutual transformation. True, you might need to navigate deep waters, but remember, even in the murkiest waters, treasures can often be found.

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