As Lilith transits through Pisces and forms a quincunx aspect to your composite Mercury in Virgo, you may find yourselves navigating a period of deep and sometimes disorienting communication shifts within your relationship. This positional interaction emphasizes the need to reconcile the ethereal and often non-verbal nature of Pisces with the detail-oriented and analytical tendencies of Virgo. This can create a dynamic that challenges each of you to effectively articulate your innermost fears, desires, and shadows.
Lilith's influence in Pisces draws out the darker undercurrents of the subconscious, stirring emotions and impulses that are often kept hidden. This can manifest in your interactions as a pull towards exploring deeper, possibly taboo topics or emotional waters that typically go uncharted in everyday conversations. The intuitive and boundary-dissolving qualities of Pisces can make these subjects emerge in unpredictable or confusing ways, which may be difficult to rationalize or neatly categorize as is preferred by Virgo's Mercury.
Mercury in Virgo demands clarity, precision, and practicality in communication but may find itself at odds with the nebulous and obscure messages that Pisces sends. You might experience misunderstandings or frustrations as what is felt on an intuitive or emotional plane by one partner does not easily translate into the clear and concise language the other partner needs for understanding and comfort.
This transit invites both of you to develop a new language for your relationship-one that honors both the logical and the mystical. It's a time to practice patience and compassion, allowing space for each other to express thoughts and feelings that may not initially make sense. Embrace the opportunity to bridge the divide by finding mutual ground in empathetic listening and by acknowledging that some truths about your relationship's dynamic may be complex and multifaceted, resisting simple explanations.
The key during this period is to appreciate the growth that comes from addressing and integrating these elusive, shadowy aspects of your partnership, using them to foster a deeper connection and understanding between you.
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