With Ceres transiting Capricorn and squaring your composite Mars in Libra, the nurturing and care dynamics within your relationship are up for a challenging review. Ceres, the asteroid associated with nurturing, mothering, and loss, tends to bring up deep-seated issues that need addressing or healing in these areas. As it makes its sojourn through pragmatic Capricorn, the emphasis falls on structure, responsibility, and sometimes, a cold dose of reality concerning how well you take care of each other and yourselves.

Capricorn's practical approach can make Ceres' energy seem a bit like a strict governess, insisting on rules and standards that may feel rigid. This might feel particularly constrictive when it squares Mars in Libra, which is all about asserting oneself in a relationship with grace and diplomacy. Mars in Libra wants things nice and pleasant, harmonious interactions without rustling too many feathers. Well, feathers are about to be rustled.

Expect some friction as these celestial forces pull you in different directions - Capricorn pushing for accountability and structure in how you nurture each other, and Mars in Libra desiring peace and fairness without too much fuss. It might feel like deciding between eating your vegetables because they're good for you (Capricorn) or opting for dessert first because, why not? (Libra).

During this period, you might find yourselves more irritable or impatient with each other. This is the cosmic push you need to address underlying issues related to care, support, and perhaps unresolved grievances. But fear not, this is like relationship boot camp - tough but ultimately rewarding. Use this time to learn about setting healthy boundaries, balancing giving and taking, and integrating structure with kindness.

Approach this phase with a spirit of growth. The lessons learned here about managing strife and nurturing will strengthen your connection, much like a workout strengthens the muscles. Yes, it might be slightly uncomfortable, but the potential gains for your relationship's longevity and health are substantial.

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