Saturn and Lilith aspects in the Synastry Chart: How do you help each other create security and structure?

12andus
By 12andus

Saturn-Lilith-Harm.jpg Saturn and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart

This couple will be able to accomplish goals and overcome odds because both are courageous, independent and aren’t afraid to dig in and get their hands dirty in an effort to deal with difficult situations.

There may be a strong and Karmic attraction, bringing these two together at a time when it is most needed. Saturn person is not one to instigate change, however Lilith person's rebellious nature can help expose inner deceit and abuses of power which Saturn person will then continue to scrutinize and work around.

Saturn person looks to Lilith person for encouragement of their individualism and desire to bring security by challenging the status quo.

Lilith person knows that Saturn person is grounded in tradition but this is refreshing as Lilith person may strive for independence and rebel against restriction and confinement, but their common ground is enduring hardship.

Saturn trine, sextile or semi-sextile Lilith in the synastry chart

This pairing brings a blend of social responsibility and self-determinism, rebellion and self-restraint.

Though it may seem like opposites attract in this blend of energies between Saturn person and Lilith person, it’s actually a much more harmonious flow of energy than may seem initially apparent.

Saturn person is inspired by Lilith person's raw emotion and authenticity. Though Lilith person's emotional turmoil may be more intense than Saturn person prefers to deal with in their own life, they can stay involved and connected from a safe distance and that works just fine for both Saturn person and Lilith person.

Lilith person is rebellious and raw, edgy and rebellious. Lilith person looks to Saturn person for stability and trusts Saturn person's sincerity because Saturn person doesn’t try to overwhelm Lilith person with neediness or domination.

Saturn opposite, square or semi-square Lilith in the synastry chart

It’s easy to see the tension between this couple. Though friction can stimulate progress and growth, it can also lead to stormy misunderstandings.

Saturn person is fine with Lilith person's edgy personality and doesn’t expect everything to be sunshine and rainbows, so they meet on common ground when it comes to accepting that life is filled with disappointments and struggle.

Where they diverge from each other is their handling of conflict. Saturn person would rather put their head down and get to work, diligently improving society one struggle at a time. Lilith person will have no such demure response.

Instead of silently toiling behind the scenes, Lilith person makes their fury and rage at injustices and past wounds known in surround sound. This seems to Saturn person to be in bad taste and way too much drama.

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