Your desire to nurture each other on a deep and transformative level is all consuming.
Pluto person is obsessive and overprotective of Ceres person. Ceres person nurtures Pluto person emotionally and helps them feel solid and secure. Ceres person fuels Pluto person's energy and focus.
Pluto person helps Ceres person feel regenerated and reborn. This is a powerful combination of heart and willpower. Ceres person may come into Pluto person's life when Pluto person needs emotional healing and comfort. Pluto person may come into Ceres person's life when Ceres person needs to let go of something so they can be reborn and move on.
You both have a strong, matnetic connection to each other.
Pluto person can’t resist Ceres person's nurturing and compassionate side. Ceres person is warm enough to melt Pluto person's heart and help them let down their defenses. Pluto person can boost Ceres person's sense of power and authority, helping Ceres person find focus.
Both Ceres person and Pluto person have a strong and deep bond to each other. Each can easily understand each other and feel like they were brought together for a purpose. Ceres person and Pluto person help stimulate the deeper transformation each needs while also nurturing each other during the process.
Pluto person and Ceres person can clash intensely without intending to.
Both Ceres person and Pluto person have good intentions for uplifting, empowering or nurturing each other. Yet Pluto person's willfulness and authoritarian approach seems harsh to Ceres person. Ceres person's attempt to nurture Pluto person can come across as smothering.
Both have to be careful to not step on each other’s toes. Pluto person and Ceres person both need to overcome their insecurities. Otherwise Ceres person may become anxious and overbearing and Pluto person can become jealous and controlling.
Each needs to work to avoid manipulation and control and instead focus on connecting deeply and uplifting each other.
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Certainly got this one right, my bf's pluto is square my ceres and the description here completely matches the dynamic between us--unfortunately so.. in no way is he empowering or uplifting of me in any sense, "harsh" is often how I put it.. seems like he's extra hard on me, cuts me absolutely no slack and somehow lacks respect for/refuses to acknowledge my regenerative process. I feel like I get zero compassion from him and he more saps my sense of personal power than encourages it.. (is intimidated by the idea of my being/becoming powerful/self-actualized?) tends to act as a critic and a limiting force, almost attempting to hinder my growth, Although I sense that it's more a reflection on his insecurities than me--it still sucks. And, conversely, I always try to be supportive of him/help him to evolve but it's often misunderstood and rarely appreciated. He resents any insight into his feelings (as he'd rather ignore them at all costs!) And sees any genuine desire to help/inspire positive change as attempt to control him (it's not at all!), Maybe because that's what it is for him! I may be ranting a bit here but of course he's not all bad, this is just a big problem area for us and idk how to change it. At what point do I give up and realize there's nothing more I can do if he's unwilling to change? I'm afraid he may be heading towards self-fulfilling prophecy as him trying to control me/hold me back backfires majorly