When Mercury transits in Aries and forms a square to your composite Chiron in Gemini, your relationship is handed a cosmic walkie-talkie that's stuck on the 'misunderstanding' channel. Communication, usually a breeze, might suddenly feel like you're both speaking different dialects of an already confusing language. Picture this: one of you is speaking in Shakespearean English, while the other is using trendy internet slang. Fun for a quirky play, perhaps, but less so when trying to resolve who should take out the recycling.

During this period, Mercury's fiery Aries energy wants to sprint to resolve issues, but Chiron in Gemini whispers reminders of past communication wounds. Maybe one of you felt unheard in past arguments, or perhaps misunderstandings have led to trust issues. Now, each conversation could seem like a minefield, sparking defensive reactions. But fear not; this cosmic challenge is not without its silver linings.

The key here is awareness. Recognize that words can unintentionally become arrows. Aim to listen (truly listen) before you leap to respond. Think of yourselves as diplomats negotiating a peace treaty. How can you ensure that both sides feel heard and validated? Sometimes, the answer is as simple as taking a breath before you speak, or even humorously acknowledging, "We might be doing that thing where we talk but don't hear each other again."

Also, utilize this transit to uncover and heal these old wounds. Chiron's involvement, painful though it may be, is always about healing and growth. Perhaps a conversation about how you communicate can lead to greater understanding and closeness. Use Mercury's quick-wit and Aries' courage to address issues head-on, but remember to coat your words with the salve of compassion and empathy.

After all, your relationship is a team, not a debate club. Through navigating this challenging square, you can emerge stronger, with a deeper understanding of each other's communication styles and emotional needs. This isn't just about surviving a rocky transit; it's about thriving through understanding and intentional action.

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