As Venus makes its transit in Virgo, it squares your composite Lilith in Gemini, creating constructive tension between the detail-oriented love characteristics of Venus in Virgo and the wild, independent nature of Lilith in Gemini. Pragmatism in showing affection may clash with a shared desire for intellectual stimulation and freedom, presenting a particularly complex dynamic challenge.

Stability, clarity, and sometimes even criticism are hallmark expressions of Venus's placement in Virgo. This could make you both more critical of your connection, picking at perceived flaws and yearning for a perfect union. An increased focus on small gestures and practical displays of love can emerge from this transit, breaking your tendency to intellectualize emotions.

Meanwhile, your composite Lilith in Gemini may push for lively conversation, stimulating mental connections and an unconstrained spirit of communication. It reinforces your quest for diversity and change, highlighting free-spiritedness and strong intellectual rapport. Yet, these desires could feel suppressed by the grounded Venus in Virgo, thus triggering the darker manifestation of Lilith, inducing subconscious power struggles or fostering elements of aloofness in your communication.

Given the nature of the square aspect, tension could rise as you navigate between expressing love practically and maintaining your shared hunger for diverse mental inputs. The virtue lies in understanding and respecting these differing energies. The practical love language of Venus in Virgo can provide grounding, an aspect that your Gemini Lilith yearns for, amidst its constant search for variety. On the other hand, Lilith in Gemini encourages curiosity and open lines of communication, offering an intellectual edge to Venus in Virgo's practical expressions of love.

Moving forward, harness these energies to foster an engaging dialogue and understand the underpinnings of your relationship's dynamic better. The dance between the pragmatic nature of love and the unruly mental power can lead to a glorious balance if both aspects are given their rightful place.

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