As Mars transits into Cancer, this active and assertive energy comes face to face with the fertile, watery depths of Cancer, essentially meeting fiery Aries's Lilith in a square aspect. This transit stirs a potent cocktail of tension and conflict in the heart of your relationship, and confronts your composite Lilith in Aries. The Lilith in Aries component in your relationship dictates a certain level of defiance, impulsive reactions, and an innate desire for individual freedom. Mars in Cancer is inviting you to react with emotional intensity, often expressing itself in strong protective instincts, and it might feel at odds with your fiery, independent Lilith.

Simultaneously, this transit has the potential to fire up the passion between you, fueling an ambivalent mix of conflict and wild attraction. The challenge for you now is to channel the primal energy of Lilith and aggressive drive of Mars constructively, rather than letting it incite unnecessary disputes. As you navigate these energetic currents, balance is key. Allow the assertive, courageous energy of Lilith to inspire personal growth and empowerment within the relationship, bolstered by the nurturing ambition of Mars in Cancer.

Potential disagreements are a realistic projection in this period. Approach these as opportunities for transformation rather than blocks. The collision of these two planetary energies encourages you to be assertive yet sensitive, bold yet compassionate. This provokes tension, fueling a rise in tempestuous moments, but also great power. Harness it to deepen your understanding of each other, bringing unparalleled levels of depth and connection. Be steadfast through these intense waves, remembering that this tension can cultivate growth and resilience, reinforcing not only individual strength but also the bond of your relationship.

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