As Mars transits Sagittarius and squares your composite Lilith in Aries, expect explorations of autonomy, truth, justice, and primal, instinctual energy within your bond. Mars, the fiery warrior planet, transiting freewheeling Sagittarius, can make you both feel more assertive, adventurous, and ideologically charged. Your belief systems and philosophies could be aggressively challenged or passionately defended.

However, the square with Lilith in Aries amplifies a wildcard element. Black Moon Lilith symbolizes repressed aspects of the self, raw instinctual behaviour, and shadow work. In fiery Aries, this aspect stokes an independent spirit, quick-tempered reactions, and a potential power struggle. The challenge here lies in balancing individual will and collective action, asserting individual needs without neglecting the common goals that form the foundation of your relationship.

The turbulent square aspect between Mars and Lilith may result in friction, agitation, or outright conflict. You may find yourselves dealing with provocative circumstances or issues that push your understanding of self, self in relation to the other, and of fairness. Themes of hunger and lack, whether they be emotional or physical desires, will demand reconciliation. It's not the time to bury contentious matters under the rug but face them head-on, with an open heart and mind.

Reconciling the tension between Mars and Lilith requires candid conversations, mutual respect for independence, and a recognition of shared goals. Harness Mars' assertiveness and Sagittarian idealism to break free from stagnation, and use Lilith's fierce independence and Aries' bold energy to foster authentic self-expression. Develop a dynamic balance between independence and togetherness. Remember, the journey through this transit is just as valuable as the end point. Keep the faith in each other's integrity and your shared growth, redefining the contours of your bond along the way.

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