With Lilith making its mark in Cancer and directly opposing your composite Mars in Sagittarius, it's time to buckle up, because your relationship is taking a walk on the wild side. This transit isn't for the faint-hearted or those who leave their raincoats at home. Yes, emotional storms may be forecasted, but remember, even the heaviest rains nourish the soil.

Lilith in Cancer is stirring up the pot in the deep, emotional waters of your joint subconscious. This presence can provoke feelings related to nurturing and your shared sense of security. Maybe it's pushing you to reassess what makes you feel safe and cared for within the relationship. During this period, it's essential to address these fundamental emotions rather than pushing them under the rug (or worse, into a closet with a broken lock!).

Opposing Mars in Sagittarius adds a layer of complexity, as Mars influences your composite action and energy, often linked to how you assert yourselves together, adventures you embark upon, and your joint ambitions. Mars in Sagittarius wants to gallop freely towards its goals, but with Lilith in opposition, that horse might occasionally turn into a bucking bronco.

This dynamic can create a push-pull between your desires for emotional closeness and the need to assert your independence. It might feel like you're in a cosmic dance-off, where one of you wants to tango and the other prefers a solo freestyle. The challenge here is to find the rhythm that lets you dance together harmoniously, even if the music is a bit off-beat.

This transit is an opportunity to transform how you handle emotional security and freedom within your relationship. Addressing these themes may be uncomfortable at times but think of this as your relationship going through a workout. Yes, the kind where muscles sorely complain before becoming stronger. With patience and honest communication, you will not only weather the storm but might just end up sailing smoother seas.

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