As Lilith transits through Virgo and forms a sextile with Pholus in Cancer in your composite chart, profound dynamics are at play within your shared emotional landscape. This period heralds a time where the deeper, often unspoken or overlooked aspects of your relationship could surface subtly yet powerfully. Lilith's influence in Virgo brings forth an urge to purify and refine these darker, complex emotional responses and interactions you share, shedding light on the more intricate psychological threads woven into your relationship's fabric.

Pholus in Cancer, meanwhile, stresses a deep emotional release; it encourages addressing legacy issues or long-held feelings between you. This asteroid's placement in such a nurturing sign enhances the need to care for these emerging sentiments properly, as they hold the potential for healing old wounds. The sextile with Lilith suggests that managing these could be less confrontational and more about gentle realizations and mutual understanding.

Imagine you both are revising an old house together, where every corner cleared and every old rug lifted reveals something about the past occupants or the history shared within those walls. Some discoveries might be unsettling or reveal hidden faults in the foundation. However, the process is essential for renovation, for transforming the space into something truly reflective of both your needs and aesthetics. This is akin to what you'd experience emotionally and psychologically during this transit.

Embrace this period as an opportunity for insightful reflections and delicate adjustments. Attend to the seemingly minor grievances or discomforts as they arise. These small moments of understanding and adjustments accumulate and align with the broader theme of your relationship's growth. What might initially appear as minor misalignments or overlooked grievances could very well be the key to unlocking a more profound, purified understanding and connection between you.

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