As Lilith transits Virgo, squaring Neptune in Sagittarius in your composite chart, the overarching theme in your relationship during this period involves confronting and transforming illusions and idealistic expectations you both hold. This period will likely challenge the ways you support and emotionally connect with each other, often stirring up feelings of misunderstanding or disillusionment.

Lilith in Virgo brings a critical eye, emphasizing the need for practicality and order. It disrupts by highlighting flaws in what was otherwise deemed perfect or igniting a desire for improvement in your relationship's dynamic. This meticulous energy can sometimes lead to overly critical attitudes towards one another or a feeling that the relationship is never quite measuring up to an ideal standard.

Squaring this is Neptune in Sagittarius, the planet of dreams and illusions. Neptune blurs the lines, encourages escapism, and idealizes what could be, rather than what is. Under its influence, your relationship might have nurtured a narrative built on shared beliefs, philosophies, or spiritual ideals. However, Lilith's square may bring a sense of crisis or urgent need to verify what parts of your shared vision are realistic and which parts are mere wishful thinking.

This transit calls for a transformation in how you perceive and relate to each other. It asks for a grounding of dreams into tangible actions and solutions. There could be a tendency to evade addressing pressing issues, possibly pretending problems do not exist or hoping they will resolve on their own. This approach might be particularly tempting as Neptune's influence inclines towards avoidance of harsh realities.

Despite these challenges, this is a potent time for growth. Engaging directly with the discomfort can lead to a more authentic connection and understanding. It's an opportunity to strip away the unattainable fantasies and focus on creating a more practical and fulfilling union. Embrace the discomfort, for through these trials, the relationship can find new ways to be resilient and realistic, aligning closer with both of your true paths.

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